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You don't come across as hating them. You come across as a snotty and arrogant. If you are giving that attitude to your parents at this age you will be lucky to ever keep a job. Your parents clearly love you as they continue to let you live in their house. Your boss won't love you and won't care if you get "your space" or not.
It is not your parents' job to be your friend. It is not your parents' job to allow you "your space". It is your parents' job to turn you into a decent human being that can be a functioning adult that is a benefit to society. It is your parents' job to "interfere in your life". You are a child. By all appearances a very immature child. You don't know enough about life at this point to make good decisions. It is your parents' job to help you make these decisions at this point (or make them for you). It is YOUR job to learn from them and to be an asset to the family. It doesn't appear that you are at this point.
You say "Start taking off my door and you might as well have set an atomic bomb off in the living room."
Hate to tell you , sweetie, but that door belongs to your parents and not you. If they want to take it off the hinges then they have every right to do so. When you own a home you may do with it as you wish. Until then be grateful that you get a room to call your own.
You also say "Me and my parents have power struggles, as soon as they start putting restrictions down it gets worse...Thats just me, but the less restrictions and rules you give me, the easier I am to live with. I'll wash the dishes, do my chores and all that stuff as long as they don't ask me to do it. As soon as they try and force me to do something, its not gunna happen."
For the rest of your life people in authority will be telling you what to do. Having parents is how you practice how to deal with this. You are failing the test right now. You will have college teachers. You will have supervisors. You will have a boss. There are police and government officials. There are tons and tons and tons of people that get to tell you what to do. Your teachers do not care if you "get your space" or if you want to do an assignment. They don't particularly care if you succeed or not. Your supervisors and bosses won't care if you want to do something or if you "get your space". They will tell you in no uncertain terms what they want you to do. They will definitely "try to force you to do things" and you will either shut up and do it or you will be out the door. There are too many people needing work to put up with arrogant, rude, and useless workers (which is what you are right now).
Your attitude is appalling. If you do not learn to accept correction and learn to deal with authority your life will be very, very hard. Being smart and making all As means nothing. People get hired and stay hired because of personality, not because they can make good grades. Right now you are unemployable.
