Many others have had to work very hard for everything we have without anyone to help. For example many have had to work from a young age to help out their parents as opposed to the other way around.
When I was around the same age as you not that long ago I was doing everything I’m doing now and taking care of my mother for years who had dementia from having a stroke. I still to this day am paying the taxes on the house I grew up in to support my brothers, along with groceries, clothing etc..
And by disabled I meant special. As in slow. I have twin brothers who were born very premature in 1974.
So all you guys constantly whining about your issues need to suck it up and be a man.