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Betta, I think you've finally got his psychology figured out. Good job, because he won't feel left out or insulted or pushed or nagged this way. By making him want to do this stuff, it's "his" idea. Guys always LOVE it when we come up with something ourselves.
I have done this to my DH before when he wouldn't help me. It does work like a charm!
I only read the first and last page of this thread, but to the OP--I have had similar problems with my DH after we had our baby a few years ago.
Marriage counseling helped us a lot. We still have to go back to see the counselor from time to time.
Betta, I think you've finally got his psychology figured out. Good job, because he won't feel left out or insulted or pushed or nagged this way. By making him want to do this stuff, it's "his" idea. Guys always LOVE it when we come up with something ourselves.
I have done this to my DH before when he wouldn't help me. It does work like a charm!
I only read the first and last page of this thread, but to the OP--I have had similar problems with my DH after we had our baby a few years ago.
