So furious with my husband, I swear he sleeps on the couch tonight

[annie3001]

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Why?

i thought something similar happened yesterday and...

 

[Sootsie]

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yep rant away hun its a lot better out than all bottled up,
just one tip if you throw anything at dh when he comes in, just think who will end up picking it up. mashed potatoe on the kitchen wall just above where he sits for dinner begins to stink after a couple of days, lol not me but my aunt threw my uncles dinner at him during a heated discussion about what colour to paint the kitchen 3 days it sat stuck to the wall before my cousin told them both off for being big kids and cleaned it up her self she was 8 at the time

sorry to make light of it i know its not funny but you will work through it when you both can sit down and talk calmly about it maybe reach a compromise if absolutly necessary

 

[Sootsie]

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Why?

i thought something similar happened yesterday and...

i thought this section of the forum was for family life to me thats the highs and lows if you choose to share them and gain a little support you can

 

[HeatherLynn]

If my rant is an issue feel free to remove or lock it. Didn't know it was a problem, sorry.

 

[redhen]

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Why?

i thought something similar happened yesterday and...

Got it!

 

[cassie]

A lot of men have an incredible sense of entitlement. Meaning that they think what they say goes, and that their vote counts for at least 90% in family issues. Where they get this I have no idea. Why does hubby want to uproot everyone and move back to town anyway?

 

[thechickenchick]

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Oh honey your rant is not an issue. Just ignore those that are making it one

If you are like me at all this is most of if not all of your socialization! My friends here are the ones I come to with the good and the bad. If I feel it is to personal or something I may not want to answer for later I PM one of my close BYC buddies. If you need someone to PM feel welcome to send me one any time. I am usually on every day, although sometimes more than others.

If I were you I would be upset too. My DH has a tough time listening to me, I mean actually listening instead of being defensive. However after he gets angry and I stop talking because he isn't listening anyway, he usually goes over to the shop. Then later that day or maybe even the next he will let me know he thought about what I said , then he wants to talk, listen and be receptive. Give it some time, hopefully he will cool off and be willing to have a redo.

I will be thinking of you, hang in there

 

[Ema]

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wow that is kinda rude!!!


sorry you are going through this.

maybe after both of you cool off you can sit down and have a better go at it. Just tell him to let you talk and then he can have his turn. I have to say this to my husband or otherwise he is always butting in. I love him to death, but have big pet peeves on being interrupted or not being looked at when I am speaking to him. Having to change everything from your life style to going back to a city is a huge thing and certainly something that merits more than one heated discussion over the phone. Its a stressful situation and one that I do not envy. I will be honest I could never, ever, go back and live in a city. In fact if my DH said we had to, I would honestly, no word of a lie, tell him..I wasn't going and that was that!!! My Dh knows moving is not an option at all.

With that said we do not know your whole situation, so if the move is a must, just tell him this is very hard on your and the kids and that you just need him to be supportive. Good luck my dear. hugs,

 

[debilorrah]

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Yeah, that is what this forum is for...... family stuff.

 

[debilorrah]

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It's not a problem and you have as much of a rantship to be here as the rest of us.