So many happily married signature lines :)

[saddina]

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Some of us didn't see the person daily untill after marriage as we lived in our parent's houses. If you attened different schools and only see each other a day or two a week, it's easy for someone to conceal who they are, some people are gifted liars.

If I had listened to my parents LESS (they still think he was wonderful) and had moved in with him before marriage, we could've skipped alot of mess.

 

[Holly O]

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We all have hurdles to overcome. I've had and have my share. I pray for so many to be able to overcome them and learn from them.
Learned behaviors can be unlearned. Break the circle. Which you are trying to do with your son. By teaching him Honor, respect, and etiquette. Chivalry Should not be a lost cause,. I have 2 sons that do open doors and all the other niceties for women. Not from example of their Father, but by MY teachings. And now their Stepfathers Teachings.

 

[ZepChick]

Yay! So there is hope for us, lol. I have to say I was wondering if my attempts will work on a young man....since they have for you I am sure I can raise my little guy to be a gentleman *swoon*

 

[saddina]

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Mine pulled the chair out for me the other day, and I asked why "Mom I don't want the girls to think I'm a complete tool". Funniest thing ever, kid's 9, I don't know where he got that.

 

[ZepChick]

Saddina ! Yes! hahaha, that is so great. He sounds like a smart little man!

 

[saddina]

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He is, but, yesterday he also saw a lady in micro shorts and said, "she's hot mom"... the lady was old enough to be his granny....

I'm soo not ready for that.

 

[ZepChick]

I so hear that

 

[fowler_chick]

marriage is like a life sentence!!!...ok i've been married for 4 year this sept 21 st....we have our on days and we have our off days.....if there is major fighting to be had the barn or work shed is the best place to do it....NOT in front of the kids.....my husband is the greatest thing in my life even though some times he doesn't think he is..( i came from a really well off family and he doesn't think he s up to pair with them) but he's got better class thn they do!!, it's not the price of thing's that matter to me it's what he put in to it to get it....i've been with him for almost 7 years, he's the world great father to my 15 year old (he didn't have to be) and spawned the greatest 2 little boy's.....i don't have to post in any where because he knows how great he is....

 

[hikerchick]

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Maybe they weren't that way when you married them? Maybe they hid that side of themselves well?

Blaming the victim always works, though.

 

[chickensioux]

Boy, the negativity on here is depressing. Someone that is happy makes others "puke" how sad for them.
What you see depends on what you look for in life....