So what do I do now???

[TCollier]

Locks are changed her stuff is in boxes on the porch and it is raining now. She was told it was out there earlier. When I came back from a nice dinner out tonight it was still there. Oh Well. I have more space in my closets.

Hey Citygirlinthecountry I could deal with TN. I lived there for a while.

 

[redhen]

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X2! No way that i would tolerate that...

 

[CityGirlintheCountry]

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Tennessee is a fabulous state.

 

[Catstar68]

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Tennessee is a fabulous state.

So is North Carolina. Where do we send our resumes?

 

[redhen]

tee hee hee... see.. you'll have ladies waiting in line!

Stay strong... you didnt deserve to be treated the way that you did... she did the lowest of low ...

 

[chicken_china_mom]

I'm sorry that you had to go through that with her. Were you with her long? I spent 6 years in a rotten relationship before I had the strength to leave. Someone on this thread said something about how the people get lazy and after awhile they begin to show their true colors. I don't know if that is how it was with you, but that resonated with me. My childrens' father put on such a show when we first met, but it really wasn't long at all before he began to show his true colors, but by then I was pregnant. Wanting my child to have her father in her life, I toughed it out much longer than I ever should have, and after suffering through a living hell for 6 years and having two kids with him, I finally had to put the welfare of myself and my children above trying to keep what relationship I had with their father alive. And truthfully, my kids and I are MUCH better off without him in our lives. I moved us to WC Indiana nearly 3 years ago and last year I went back to college, something I didn't know if I'd ever be able to do while I was with him. While he didn't have a drug or alcohol problem, he was unable to stay faithful, and that put a huge strain on me. Don't jump into another relationship right out the door. You need time to heal from the hurt, and make sure that you find a GOOD woman to share your life with. I've been single 7 years now because I have not yet found that "right" guy, and I'm not in a hurry. Sure, at 35 I'm not getting any younger, but at the moment I'm concentrating on graduating college, and then I can decide from there where I want to go with my life. Besides, where I live all the men are married, whether they are 18 or 80, so it's not like there are a lot of fish in the sea, lol. All I'm saying is, you don't want to end up with another woman like this one. You want someone that will respect you and treat you good. Shoot, isn't that what we all want? Take care of yourself now, and make sure that you are in a good place before you look for someone new. And if you do happen to find someone, ask her if she has a brother that's single, lol.

 

[AhBee01]

I'd set you up with my Mom, but no way am I having a 43 year old step Dad, I'm 42! Just to strange! We are in Ohio too! All kidding aside, I'm sorry you are going through this. I hope you will get over everything quickly, and find Mrs right!

 

[debilorrah]

Tom I have no recommendations for you as far as dating goes, but I am certainly happy to read that you put her crap out to the curb. She is TOTALLY taking advantage of you!!! You seem like a good guy from what you have posted, and what she did is COMPLETELY unacceptable. There is no reason on this planet to put up with that. I would NEVER put up with from Ken and I would never do that to him either. It is just not an option, and the fact that is was an option for her? BUH BYE!

 

[Mattemma]

I would let her go.Maybe I am odd or just too old,but I don't think one needs to go partying with friends constantly,and staying at a mans house when BF is right down the road. You deserve more respect and she is not giving you any.Best wishes whatever you decide to do with her.

And god bless you for not letting her drink and drive. I dread driving daily with my kids due to txters and drunks.

 

[BorderKelpie]

ummm,

Where do I send my resume?

Seriously, she has/had absolutely no idea just how good she had it with you. Why can't people see what good things they have before they throw it all away? (Although, if you see fit to move to Texas, I'll quit harping about her and just thank her for sending a good man down here.) lol