Try to find something in the other person that you like or ask them a question about themselves - kind of generic questions. Most people really enjoy talking about themselves - that way the focus isn't on you & you don't feel like you have the spotlight on YOU! BTW, I am very shy - I was the girl sitting on the side reading a book during recess. I am now an RN and I have to establish a raport with patients within 5 minutes. You will find (through trial and error) what questions will work. I find that everyone has a story to tell and most enjoy telling it!
Practice, practice, practice - don't be afraid to try!
carol
Practice, practice, practice - don't be afraid to try!
carol