if you post, be prepared to defend your argument, that is the point of a debate. not everyone is going to post rosey things, that's the freedom of posting. however, we can do it with a kind heart.
don't take things personally, when something is written, we decide HOW to read it. and, remember, this isn't REAL. it's not face to face. we don't TRULY know any of these people. i take everything with a grain of salt that i read.
and remember, you expected the poster on Craigslist to be responsible for their post.
i say this all kindly, not to be mean or rude. just a statement.