Yikes. Scary shiRt.Well it couldn't get any worse. Someone has stolen my identity..Who would want to be me.
Of course my husband is blaming me for it. Why I haven't a clue. I feel pretty helpless at this point.
You try to be a good person and this is the SHIrT that happens. I can't even get my credit report from one of the agencies because I answered the security questions wrong. At least for the new way "Carol" has them answered.
IMHO your husband is angry at the unknown party and frustrated that he can't protect you and is taking it out on the nearest person - you. Which of course makes no sense.

Maybe your local FBI office can help in some way. Ditto on the Lifelock suggestion.
And it could always be worse. You could be me. At this point, I'd pay someone to take my credit rating.
