Thanks Kelly. I am beyond sad right no. We came to the realization that Tucker is just too broke for us to fix. Michael took some action recently when Tucker had an accident in the house that triggered his memories of past abuse. Michael just picked him up and took him outside, nothing remotely abusive. Since that time, whenever he is around Michael, he has been cowering, shaking, having submissive urination problems. It is quite common in abused dogs. There are techniques that sometimes work in reversing the behavior, but it is difficult and requires time and patience. After much discussion with the rescue folks, we decided that it would be in Tucker's best interest to be in a female only household. After his most recent rescue, he was unable to be picked up at all without urinating. He also urinated whenever he saw a man, even on the street. His foster mom was willing to take him back. She plans to place him with her daughter in a newly renovated home with all vinyl flooring. He should get the love and care he needs without being in fear that the man of the house will pick him up and throw him against a wall ever again.
I am broken hearted but I know the work would not be done here to correct the behavior, if it can be corrected. Tucker made it easier on me for sure. When I let him out of the car to go with his foster mom, he was all over her. He jumped right into the passenger side with his buddy, her other small dog. He never even looked back. He was home again.
I'll be back online tomorrow. Love you guys.
Mary
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