@dennisK Have you gotten any headway on getting her to make the switch? Did you purchase a unit yet? How is it going?
Hi gg706! She doesn’t like the Provan because it doesn’t look like a cigarette. If she does go to vaping, she may have to go through the same process you did, and I’m not sure she doesn’t have the determination you had. She must want to quit cigarettes, and I am not sure she does. All of the “want” may be from me only, and that won’t work. This is a difficult thing to give, as gifts come with an expectation of use, and if she really doesn’t want to quit tobacco - well, I would be pushing when I shouldn’t. So, this is my plan: I will put a ribbon around $400 and give it to her with the stipulation that it is only to be used for supplies to help her quit cigarettes. It can stay there in her possession until she is ready to use it. The rest will have to be up to her.
My sister was addicted to drugs. She would continually get into trouble, and I would get calls from strangers who would inform me that she needed my help. They would give me her address, and I would go there, frightened for her, and angry. We would argue and as hard as I could push reason, she would push back equally hard with nonsense. I was never able to help her. But then, one day I received one of those calls and an address. I had been flying small aircraft during that time; so I reserved a Cessna, and I showed up at her door. “Hey Sis! Come have lunch with me. I know a place we can fly to.” Here in California, there is a small airport near a historical park in the Sierras where a pleasant meal can be had. I said nothing about her problems. We were just brother and sister going out for a meal. I showed her the airport I was flying from, we flew out over the bay area, over the central valley and into the Sierras. During lunch and during our flight, no mention of troubles was made. I took her home and thanked her for the day – that was all. The next day, she checked herself into rehab.
I know that an addiction to cigarettes isn’t considered as serious as hard drugs, but they are both addictions, and all the logic in the world, all the force you can apply wouldn’t get an addicted person to truly quit. Sometimes, all you can do is be there for them.