Poor Dougie, you are such an evil Mum!I won't just show the good side of my relationships with my ducks here, I'll be honest, Dougie doesn't love me so much anymore.
A while ago I was inconsistent again with collecting eggs, and as Dougie was hiding the eggs in her discrete nest, I didn't realise that there were as many as there was, at least 10.
So when I noticed her go back inside one morning to sit on her nest, I realised immediately she was broody.
I don't like messing up and letting that happen, because obviously her eggs are infertile and she's wasting her energy on them. So I waited for her to leave her nest for food and then removed the eggs and dismantled her nest. She has been broody before so I really didn't think it would be an issue, but boy I was wrong, she was SO distressed that I had done this, she realised her eggs were gone and she was very upset. I'd never seen her look like that before, I felt absolutely evil. Later at their bedtime I gave them an egg, she usually will eat eggs regardless of how broody she feels. This time she was horrified, she picked up bits of shell and then just dropped them back down, and she just about chased Sprightly away when she tried to eat it. I didn't know that sort of thing could even bother them, honestly, it really shocked me, and then I was certain I was evil. In her mind I not only destroyed her family and home, but also served her babies back to her on a dinner plate! That's how her reaction made me feel!
She wanted absolutely nothing to do with me for a couple days and then they both started their moult so she's feeling a bit sensitive and unhappy. I've been upping their protein a bit, mealworms with their breakfast and I crack an egg for them some evenings- Dougie was super into her eggs before she went broody, she was eating every bit including the whites and yolk. And the shells were her favourite treat. She won't touch them now. Doesn't go near them.
It's been a couple weeks now, and she still hasn't forgiven me. She runs from me as if I'll hurt her, obviously I know its just her hormones and perhaps a bit of a grudge, and she is a prey animal and I shouldn't take it personally.
But I wanted to try and mend our bond, so I spent the day with them today, and tried to spend a lot of time with her. I put water in their dirt/grass box to make a nice mud box, and I got stuck in finding them worms. She really enjoyed it, doing the little stompy feets that birds do in rainy weather, and after a LOT of patience and staying still, she took worms from my hands. After a bit more time, she got comfortable nibbling my fingers and visibly relaxed around me.
I won't try handling/cuddling/touching her for a while yet, she isn't going to appreciate it so it will be on her terms.
But there's a bit of our ups and downs, even with ducks as friendly and affectionate as my hand raised girls, they're always going to have ups and downs and sometimes they need space.
I won't let her get broody again, not until she has eggs to hatch, I won't be careless again!

Honestly, I was laughing as I pictured her presented with a scrambled 'baby'!