no. When I get sick, I still take care of the animals. It makes me think. The kids have moved (ran) away.
Sorry to hear about your husband. We are slowly dealing with the wife's issues. They won't get better. Prayers and thoughts to you.
We are discussing retirement plans. Follow a kid (they spread to the four winds)? Down to one parent between us. Other option is near a sibling. All involve moving. Unfortunately, everyone is north of us. The bananas won't make the trip.
Find your priorities.

Chickens and bananas are mine at the moment.