I'm with you too but I can see where busybodies want to make sure the young and elderly are properly taken care of. I don't think they need to interfere as much as they do but sometimes it's needed. They just don't know when to stop. Back in the pioneer days, the neighbors were to busy tending to their own problems to bother much with other peoples business but it was left up to their families to make sure kids were take care of. I didn't say elderly because the elderly didn't usually live that long after their hard lives.
Of course, handling sewage properly and keeping it away from the drinking water wells contributed enormously to the essential disappearance of typhoid, cholera, and dysentery - along with a number of other fun diseases, including Hepatitis A - in the developed world.