Things will work out, Chiknlady--It sounds like you've had a rough time recently but things will get better. I too live in SE PA and although the suburban sprawl is getting closer every day, there are too many conveniences we're not willing to give up just yet (public water, public sewer, natural gas, cable tv). Think about all the changes you'll have to make in your daily lifestyle before committing to a new unfamiliar location. A change may be just what you're itching for but you're smart to think this thru before taking the leap. Spend a whole day in your new target location and see what you think. Sometimes a place just "feels" right or wrong. Trust your instincts and the feeling you get as you're driving there. Do you feel dread or excitement? I bought our house because although it was homely and badly in need of TLC, the property just felt 'right' and felt like I belonged there...Felt like home and still does 17 yrs later. Best of luck to you!!!!
