Things you wish you could say

[notabitail]

Who has seriously not seen that movie!?

I haven't. I don't know which one you're talking about but I haven't.

 

[bill3607]

Who has seriously not seen that movie!?

Never ever. I have heard of the name is all at some time, and I think it is probably here that I heard it. I am fairly certain that I would never hear of it anywhere else.

What is it? Animation?

 

[BigBlueHen53]

From the movie. No, not animation. A love/ adventure story.

 

[azurbanclucker]

Never ever. I have heard of the name is all at some time, and I think it is probably here that I heard it. I am fairly certain that I would never hear of it anywhere else.

What is it? Animation?

 

[Fluffy_Moth_With_Silkies]

There will always be mean people and people who think that they're giving good advice without realizing how it sounds to the recipient. I lost count of how many times I was told "You'd be really pretty if you wore makeup," when I was younger.

Yeah, but people who do wear makeup are called fake. Idk, I'm just depressed rn and tired of the bs people keep pulling to bring others down.

 

[Brooks_]

Who has seriously not seen that movie!?

Me.

 

[bill3607]

I just read up on it. That is a Meathead film. Probably is pretty good. It is an old film. Surprising that I have not seen it. Maybe I have, and don't remember.

 

[bill3607]

Me.

I think TT said it was her favorite all time movie, so expect a throat punch. If you don't mind go ahead and take mine for me as well. I will get you back later

 

[Fluffy_Moth_With_Silkies]

Hellooo I'm back again with another post about appearances. Been very self conscience recently so there may be a few of these.
For those of you that don't know I am non-binary/gender fluid. I have my pronouns in my tags.
Feeling androgynous is the average for me. I like being in the middle and it feels right.
Feeling feminine is more common than masculine, but still not super common.
Feeling masculine is rare for me.
When I feel androgynous I wear baggy clothing in dark colors like dark pine green and dark leather brown. I love the look. I wear things that are more form fitting when I feel feminine. I wear baggier, less shaping clothes when I feel masculine.
There are many comments made on every type of outfit I wear. As a young person, this is detrimental to my self-esteem. It might not seem like a big deal if someone makes a comment, but social media has evolved to the point where every insecurity can be hidden away by a filter or makeup. Not many people online show their insecurities. Or talk about them.
If I look andro, I get comments like, "You need to wear tighter clothing. You look kind of like a boy," or, "Moth, you look like a rat today with that baggy clothing on."
If I look fem, I get comments such as, "You dress so preppy. Get your own style." or "Aww, is Moth trying to be preppy now?" (Yeah it's stupid but it's been said.)
If I look masc, it's "You look like a hobo lol" or "Are you depressed? That's a depression outfit right there."
It's not that big of a deal but it still hurts a lot. I don't like a lot of myself now because of people.
I have an insane overbite, and it's been commented on a lot. I now cover my mouth when I laugh and smile without my teeth.
Sometimes I have eye bags. They say that I look like I'm on drugs. I try to use products to get rid of those.
I hate my eyebrows because one time someone said they were really thick.
I hate my nails because people call them cat claws. I really like how they look though.
I hate my laugh because it's ugly and loud "compared to other peoples"
I hate my personality because I'm "mean" and "bossy" and "sassy." I don't want to change my personality, but I've been trying to.

No one should hate their bodies or themselves because other people notice something off.

 

[BigBlueHen53]

Yeah, but people who do wear makeup are called fake. Idk, I'm just depressed rn and tired of the bs people keep pulling to bring others down.

I did not mean to suggest that. If people want to, and it makes them feel good, then that's up to them. No judgment either way. I can't imagine anyone saying "you would be so much prettier without makeup." I mean what's personal choice is nobody else's business. Or telling someone how they should wear their hair or something. Right? That's like, what we call a "nunya." As in, it's "nunya" business.