Just want to say I think you are BOTH wonderful for trying to help me, and I have appreciation for what both were saying. I took the reply as Penny Hen telling me that IF I WERE IN SERIOUS TROUBLE AND BEING HURT, that is how to stop it. Lest I lay there with my face in a pile of turkey poo having my butt kicked. (cause I would LOL)

And I appreciate that Sydney Acres spoke up at the misunderstanding because .....after all........I am the person who cannot attend animal auctions simply because it tears me up to see animals handled so roughly. I wouldn't be able to do it anyhow, but thumbs up for speaking up when you thought something wasn't right. All I can say is it does my heart good to see good people.
I certainly am the nervous novice and that is nicer than what some other farmers call me....LOL!!! I am spending some time out there carefully watching the behavior. The very large one is hissing/spitting at me and drumming, which I understand is mating behavior. The smaller of the two is not. When I enter the pen, they back up a little and have not yet charged me. HOWEVER, when they are in the outdoor run, the big one is trying to start junk with the other animals. If there was not a good fencing in between the big Tom and my pig and goats, I am sad to say he would be making minced meat of them. Especially poor Hamlett (pig) it seems. He was charging the female and "yet to be determined" as well when they were in the pen. This has me considering butchering him before things do get any more progressed and I do end up with an issue of other animals/ my kids being hurt by him. And honestly, since I don't seem to have it in me to get tough, even when called for, it may be in my best interest to nip the problem in the butt before it goes too far. Have had issues with seriously nasty roosters before, and then always feel bad when it comes to HAVING TO put them down AFTER someone has been hurt, even me. Makes me sad, but "MY GUT" is telling me things are about to go very wrong for me and the big dude, and it's going to be worse and VERY UGLY to the point where I lose control of the situation.
As for the smaller of the two, he isn't doing anything to the other animals or me, but is certainly ready to start scrappin with the big turkey I think. He is making a trill noise/ screech when they are gobbling together, and in the pen he was following the big one around, right up his butt, in circle, like "YOU WANNA PIECE OF ME???". Was thinking I would watch him a little longer before deciding if he would be a threat to anyone else here. He seems more docile and not a problem for anyone but the big guy. I don't feel in my gut he is a mean one, just sick of the big one's crap!
Any thoughts on this? Opinions welcomed. And Thanks a bunch again! YOU GUYS ROCK!!!