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I wish I had super-powers, but, much to the dissapointment of my kids, I'm just plain old ordinary Mom. Brainy enough to get in the AP classes in school, but not truly gifted like the other kids in the class were, so I did not fit in anywhere. I hated High School because of that, but happily discovered that I was the norm in college.
The social aspect of Autism is really starting to get to Alex now. When he finds someone who will listen to all his ideas, he does not know when to shut-up, so they listen only once. He hates group-projects at school, his IEP states he can do them solo, but I want him to first try and work with others. He doesn't ever have any friends over to play with or hang-out with unless they are sons of my friends. He's having a birthday on October 9, and wants a party at K1Speed. I'm having trouble coming up with the 6 rider minimum, and now they just e-mailed, they require 8 kids for a party! (There web-site states 6, so 6 they will honor!) How did you make it through Middle School?
I read this to my daughter (turned 15 yesterday) because she had shared with me an experience from her summer ASB camp. (She's president of her student body this year.) She had been so moved by a presentation given by various adults who reflected on their painful jr high experiences. They shared what it was like to be disabled, or foreign, or overweight or just not "cool" or popular. She said she and the other campers were in tears by the end of the presentation. She was so moved by this experience that it was the first thing she told me about when she came home from camp. She told me that she was going to look for students that may be having trouble and try to make a difference. So I read your post to her and she said she'd love to come to his party if there's room. She's a lot of fun and she's kind. Let me know if there's room. (She's not much into go-carts but she said she'd try
edited to add: Oh, applesauce, meant to send a PM. Sorry.
I'm still working on what we will do, but I may take you up on your offer. though if I can use my coupons, I may not book the party, and just go drop-in. Alex said he would rather eat somewhere else than have the pizza they serve there.