We Quit Cigarettes

[BigBlueHen53]

My advice is, don't pour out his liquor, he'll just buy more and resent you for it. Try this instead, if you can. Remove yourself from the house. As others have suggested, call your son, go stay with him. When DH asks why, tell him you can't live in a house with alcohol. You are weak and can't be around it. You will come home when home is safe for you, meaning alcohol free. Free of all addictive substances, if you want. Is up to him to meet your needs. Then simply stay gone as long as that takes. Up to him. You have the power, Girl! Make it his choice. That way you give HIM the power, and the choice. See? It can work!

Edit: spelling typo

 

[kcan2]

That's good to hear. I may be calling on you to talk later tonight. I don't think I will sleep tonight, dreading the morning. Hubby starts looking for his beer, I don't know what he will say when I tell him to go to the barn to drink! Lol.... It's really not funny. But it is . lmao Probly won't be tomorrow though.

He has been naughty! Nooo you do NOT want to repeat any of the hell you have gone through to get to where you are today! Nope.nope.nope
I know we can't always change others but at least we can work on ourselves, which is exactly what it sounds like you are doing and it is so inspiring!!

 

[ShannonR]

That's good to hear. I may be calling on you to talk later tonight. I don't think I will sleep tonight, dreading the morning. Hubby starts looking for his beer, I don't know what he will say when I tell him to go to the barn to drink! Lol.... It's really not funny. But it is . lmao‼ Probly won't be tomorrow though.

Webby, you're in a tough spot! I am sorry. Keep doing your best and good things will come of it!

 

[webbysmeme]

That's the spirit, Webby! You just keep on going!
Okay, *ahem* high-school cheerleader-esque encouragement done, I hope that your husband will understand that you're going through some really seriously hard times, and that alcohol is not welcome in the house.
Good luck, Webby. You are strong, incredibly so, for doing all this. You can make it through this.

Thank you. You have encouraged me so much this whole time. I don't know what I would have done without you, All of you. I'm hoping after our talk in the morning that he will understand more and be a little supportive. I doubt it, but I'm praying for that. I think I can, I think I can, I think I can........

 

[webbysmeme]

He has been naughty! Nooo you do NOT want to repeat any of the hell you have gone through to get to where you are today! Nope.nope.nope
I know we can't always change others but at least we can work on ourselves, which is exactly what it sounds like you are doing and it is so inspiring!!

Thank you. I didn't start this willingly! My doctor refused to write me any more scripts. So, I decided , hey, if I'm going to get clean, I will do it all the way. I've done good so far. Until this ass hole brings liquor home with him. Now I'm not sure what will happen.

 

[Sapphire Sebright]

The little Webby that could!
I'll pray that things work out between you and your husband, too. You need support at times like these, and what are loved ones supposed to be but supportive and caring? I hope that he understands. Good luck, Webby.

 

[webbysmeme]

"We all have an unsuspected reserve of strength inside that emerges when life puts us to the test." Isabel Allende
You hang on to that thought!
Glad to see you back..,we missed you!

 

[BantyChooks]

Thank you. I didn't start this willingly! My doctor refused to write me any more scripts. So, I decided , hey, if I'm going to get clean, I will do it all the way. I've done good so far. Until this ass hole brings liquor home with him. Now I'm not sure what will happen.

 

[webbysmeme]

Webby, you're in a tough spot! I am sorry. Keep doing your best and good things will come of it!

You are such a sweet girl. How are your babies feeling? And you. How are you ?

 

[webbysmeme]

The little Webby that could!
I'll pray that things work out between you and your husband, too. You need support at times like these, and what are loved ones supposed to be but supportive and caring? I hope that he understands. Good luck, Webby.

You know what Sapphire? I've been thinking, just in the last few minutes on here and watching the news at the same time. This may all work in my favor All bars and restaurants are closing tomorrow, next will be alcohol sales! He may be forced to quit! Wouldn't that be something?