ahh This makes me ill to think what we pay every month.
Let me start off saying that 5 yers ago when the economy was great-we were doing great-DH is in real estate sales and a contractor-and when the market bottomed out around here so did his work:-( SO we went from living a very comfortable life to living paycheck to paycheck. Some of you remember I posted a thread a while back about bakruptcy? We have not gone that route..yet..however we have been on payments plans and settlements with all the companies we owe$ to. We just did not feel right to not pay something back to what we spent-trust me if it were fast and simple to file we would have but we didnt qualify for chapt7 and 13 is basically what we are doing. Even still, every cent is accounted for and the pay is gone the second it hits the banks-
Our monthly expenses
Mortgage-2500$ taxes are escrowed into that and insurance too( for those BYCer's that have been to my house they can verify the house is NOTHING special but the cabin and land that comes with it is what we pay for-bought the house when the market and income were 2x as much as what we live off of now)
We renovated cabin -back when we had the $ to do so-to rent weekly to help offset mortgage-600-700$ a week from May-Nov1st-it is not always booked up and we just went through our first year doing it and it brought in 6000$ to help payoff some debt.
sold our pontoon boat we had for 8 years
sold our catepillar toy thing My dh had for work ( man toy??)
sold all antiques we had and everything else to help pay off and catch up some bills
electric 200-800$ per month depending on season-DH is installing an outdoor woodburner to completely offset that cost as I JUST got done finally paying off the 3000$ electric bill from last WInter! and a 2500$ fuel bill
and I kept the heat on 64 at all times.
TV-cable-phone 160$ a month-all though Im pulling the plug on cable and getting basic that will cut it down another 65$ before Winter
cellphone-165$ a month thats after a 19% discount through work -oh and because of my contract they give me 42$ a month towards that bill-3 phones on it and we ALL need them due to the fact we are 25 minutes from town and commnication is a must.
food 3-400$ a month for 4+ healthy eaters
100$ a month on pet feed ( 50+ chickens 2 dogs 2 cats)
truck payment-579$ 4 years old for DH's contracting business
my car -369$simple basic Kia sportage 3 years old
school lunches 5$ a day for both girls when they dont pack a lunch
havent used a
credit card in 3 years
we do NOT vacation anymore-used to every year its been 4 years since we've done that-I will go on a weekend trip for chickenstocks and such but thats only happened once... so far

We don't host gatherings anymore either-used to all the time-except my recent chickenstock and everyone helped and pitched in enough to where my expenses were not killing me when it was over

except those shirts LOL..
I dont think im forgetting anything-all the other expenses clothes-eating out etc..only come if we make a little extra or get gift certificates for gifts ( which is what we tell people we would like if they feel the need to purchase anything for us for bdays and Xmas-this way my whole family can enjoy it-)
For Xmas ( since we have 2 DD's 12 and 15) I make alot ( 150-200)of egg ornaments to sell at a craft show to raise extra $ for my girls
and I sell eggs eating and fertile to offset the pet feed bill-it usually breaks even..
whatever comes in goes out immediately so thats my life!