What is with some women......................

[Buff Hooligans]

I think everything has been discussed that "needs" to be discussed. I think everybody agrees with each other on this issue, just in different ways. Let's give it a rest.

 

[Elite Silkies]

Me and my husband look at people all the time. Everyone has beauty in some way or another. I don't think everyone goes for outside appearance. There is just something that attracted them to that person.

I think there is someone for everyone, you just have to find that special person.

Boyd I think it's great that your proud of your partner. It's doesn't hurt to show off a little. Everyone feels good when they are all dressed up, and nothing wrong with showing it.

I do feel sorry for people that have low self esteem and don't see themselves as a beautiful person.

 

[destiny_56085]

I work in a profession where I meet thousands of people in a day sometimes. I deal cards and pitboss at one of the major casinos up here. I get to see every walk of life coming through those doors.

Coming from a dealer standpoint, yes I do point out physical attributes on people all the time.... OMG I love that ring, Where do you get your hair done, That purse is beautiful. On guys I'll mock the fact that they have a Ford cap or John Deere or something like that. Its at least an icebreaker to bring people out of there shell. Some of these people can be down $10 grand and down in the dumps and you give them anything in the world to take their mind off their money. Some people only show up at the casino because they are having so many problems at home they don't want to be there. Some of the little old people especially wear things because of sentimental value. Get em talking at least.... Take their mind off their problems and put a smile on their face.

I've lost count of the young kids (maybe 18-20 years old) that come in the casino scared to say the least. If they do get the nerve to come up to the tables they are literally shaking like a leaf. Talk to them and get em laughing... If you even remember anything about them they are in shock. For example, one really good looking young guy wore the same shirt at least 20 times in a row. I finally called him out on it and asked him if his mom ever took him shopping. Now he comes up to my table at least once a week with a different shirt on every time. He always has a huge smile on his face and winks when he sees me. He knows I'm not trying to hit on him.... They just know you care enough to notice them!

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[hearthnsoul]

I dunno, I compliment people all the time when I think they look fab, so doesn't my husband, well he doesn't say fab,..never bothered either of us. To each their own

 

[sparkles2307]

OK maybe its a sign that we spend too much time around our friends, but DH's buddy and my DH notice when me or the buddie's wife change out hair or wear something nice. They compliment us, its totally ok. if a guy is looking me up and down and then proceedes to tell the area 10 inches below my eyeballs that I look nice I am like "oh thanks..." and walk away thinking "creep my eyes are up here..." but if a guy is nice (like the Lowes guy) and pays the compliment in a not lecherous way then I am flattered and DH uses it as a reminder to appreciate fully what he's got! Vice versa, if a woman tells me or DH that he looks good I say "why yes he does!" and then re-admire what I have got!

 

[Rillion]

isn't it written somewhere to always put your wife on a pedestal so she knows she's admired?

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[Chicks_N_Horses]

I did not go through this whole thread.....on that note....

I know my DH finds other women attractive just like I find other men attractive. (Chris LeDoux =

) We often tease each other about finding others attractive. We are very secure with ourselves and each other so there has never been any jealousy with it.

It is normal to find another person attractive IMO. I find other women attractive myself. The woman is one of Gods great and beautiful creations.

I don't mind getting or giving compliments on someones looks. Doesn't mean you base your whole opinion on what they look like but beauty should be admired IMO. Feel free to tell me how beautiful I am

 

[saddina]

I get the variation of this where people I don't know need to tell me I look like that actress, you know the one, on ER? Then she did that show in the 90's with the family? Yes I know who you mean I've gotten that since the 90's when the first show came out an we were the same age.

Admire the looks all you want, it just makes it that much easier to out think you. I suppose in my reality women can be both smart and beautifu, and admiring one doesn't take away from the other.l

 

[sparkles2307]

LOL DS once saw a pic of Ellen Pompeo in a magazine and freaked out that it was me and started hugging and kissing the picture of "mommy!!!"

I dont see the resemblance but dang I will take a compliment like that!

 

[Mrs. Turbo]

for me it is ok if a guy glances my way...I just brush it off, but if they stare at you walking across a parking lot or they are obviously gushing over you it is very degrading and just plain rude.

out of respect for my husband I never point out good looking guys....he does the same for me when it comes to wome..... He tells me that when he sees another women they are just a floating head.....lol