What is with some women......................

[weaveagarden]

Wow, 10 pages. I just don't have time to read the entire topic, so will post my observations.... Probably a repeat of someone else.

I don't think it is just women who do this. I have noticed that some men have a hard time with a woman finding another man attractive. I don't think it is a gender thing, but an insecurity thing. Unfortunately, insecurity keeps some people from complimenting their own spouses/partners, so they are often insecure about their own situation. An unfortunate vicious cycle.

If everyone could be bold enough to just treat others with kindness (which includes finding value in their traits, talents and acts, and expressing it to them) we would all be more happy and confident.

Don't stop sending out that praise. Just try to keep in void of lecherism.

 

[TheOLDNewChick]

Insecurity.

Stems mainly from childhood. Some women grow up trying so much to earn the love of a father, grandfather, coach, etc. that when they grow older, they're so insecure with themselves that they feel the need to tear down anything that might steal away the love that they *finally* earned, be it from a husband, boyfriend, etc.
Insecurity almost always goes hand-in-hand with jealousy in a relationship.
Growing up not feeling loved, or "good enough", results in the never ending drive to be the best. Not to be "good enough" anymore, but to be the absolute best.


At least -- that's what happened to me. I'm not afraid to admit my insecurity.
But, just as many men are like that as women are. Which goes back to childhood, or bad relationships. Almost always.

 

[Amyable]

Chicks_N_Horses, have I told you lately how gorgeous you are?

 

[wombat]

You're all looking fabulous this morning!

 

[Mojo Chick'n]

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some people are just stuck in Jr. High mode... or is that Jerry Springer mode? almost the same thing....

Personally, I think Johnny Depp is cute - would I ever run to him if he asked (

yeah, like that would happen)?
No way, I don't care for his lifestyle or politics. He's cute, end of story.

meri

 

[Buff Hooligans]

Wombat's not only a stunner, but she is nice to old people too.

 

[deb1]

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thank you, wombat. And if you would come out from under that chair, I would bet that you are very attractive also.

 

[Boyd]

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Buff, you ain't old. I've seen your pics

 

[Iowa Roo Mom]

Have you seen the men on this forum?!?
WOWZA!!!

Uh oh.. Did I offend anyone?

 

[weaveagarden]

Without a doubt you are right about that daddy issue thing.

I think that all here are mostly beautiful people. Well, there are a few trolls, too. But since I don't know what most of them look like, I am really talking about how they treat each other, and me! I keep coming back, so the good ones must outway the uglies by a large margin.

None of us is completely secure. That is why treating people well is that much more important.

Go ahead and look in the mirror and give yourself a pat on the back from me all you wonderful people!