Where I've Been For The Last Month

[Scoop]

I didn't read all the posts so maybe someone has already said...

at least you discovered why he is in the middle of a divorce...

hope you get fully recovered soon!

 

[Laurajean]

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The scary part is... he left her! So how bad is she that she drove HIM crazy!?!?

And thank you, I'm on the road to healing as we speak. I just need to take it easy for a while.

 

[Scoop]

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The scary part is... he left her! So how bad is she that she drove HIM crazy!?!?

And thank you, I'm on the road to healing as we speak. I just need to take it easy for a while.

Maybe she just got sick to death of his laziness and thru him out on his ear! He prolly landed on his bathrobed butt!

 

[Mahonri]

I promise, if you ever write a book, "The Adventures of Laurajean" I'll be first on the list to buy it.

Guess we've all heard the saying, I got my education from the school of hard knox....

... you've most certainly been educated this last month, and you've learned some lessons THE HARD WAY!,

... I'll just say a prayer that you are feeling better and just say, "All these things shall give thee experience"

Thanks for coming back, I am one of your biggest fans. You've been missed.

 

[Laurajean]

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Thank you so much for the kind words Mahonri, that really made me smile.

(I REALLY need to write a book. I had no idea my odd perspective on life's experiences was so interesting. I've had a lot of people request first copies of a book if I write one..... I should seriously consider it. God knows I could use some money, now more than ever!

.)

 

[redhen]

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I agree..
Laura.. you did the right thing. A man like that would drive me NUTS! I'd have gone to jail for putting something nasty in his coffee...
Yeah... if you have to ASK a man to go out and shovel snow.... NOT a good sign of things to come.

 

[Laurajean]

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I agree..
Laura.. you did the right thing. A man like that would drive me NUTS! I'd have gone to jail for putting something nasty in his coffee...
Yeah... if you have to ASK a man to go out and shovel snow.... NOT a good sign of things to come.

I really came close to losing it. I mean really. He never left my side and only when I was bed ridden with Pancreatitis could I get him to go to the store without me. I would call up my aunt or my father and say "I'm losing it. He's driving me nuts!" Both of them of course said I need to get him out asap, but I was just nervous about his mental state. Eventually my own mental state took precedence and I just couldn't take it anymore.

 

[justbugged]

I re-read your op, and you said that he had been injured in Iraq. Is it possible that he had a brain injury? A lot of the military are coming back with brain injuries. They look normal, but their brains are forever changed. No commonsense may be an expression of the brain injury. Since you knew him before, you may have seen the difference of before and after.

 

[Laurajean]

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No brain injury that I am aware of, just a back injury. Although I'm sure the war in general affected him psychologically. His personality seems exactly the same as when we dated all those years ago. It just wasn't a big deal back then because we were teenagers, so we didn't care about responsibility. It seems like I grew up and he didn't. His own Facebook motto is "Still don't know what I want to be when I grow up". If that doesn't say it all....... Regardless, I can't live like that. I can sympathize, but I live a hard life out here in the woods as most of you already know. If I'm going to have a man living with me, he needs to be ambitious and responsible, period. I'll always be his friend, but just because he may have "issues" doesn't mean I should live with that, does it? Things around here need to get done, chores, chickens, shoveling, saving every penny. I'm disabled and I do it alone. I actually got LESS done with him here, not more. I just can't live like that as bad for him as I might feel.

 

[Royd]

How does one get a lacerated esophugus? Inquiring minds want to know.

Are you, also, a smoker? If not, why would you allow him to trash your house, in such a manner....If so, there's $40 a month you are throwing away.