Why did she have to say that...

[B. Saffles Farms]

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Ditto, That is 110% true.

 

[domino7]

First of all like others have said, beauty isn't everything. Secondly, judging from your picture, I think you are very pretty. Thirdly, anyone who doesn't treat you with respect and uplift you ISN'T your friend. Drop them. Life is too short.

 

[TheDuckCrew]

thanks everyone. i have a 7th grade teacher that is possibly one of the best teachers i have ever had. i think its time for a visit. i have always gone to her for help and she has always been there and helped me through it. (i can still go see her because the high school and middle school are connected, yes small town). i have social anxiety disorder and she picked up on it and with her help and other teacher's help, i got much much much better. too bad the 8th grade teachers just ruined all the good work they had done for me. she has been there for me through everything. i have a real counselor, but i think my 7th grade teacher is more helpful and i feel more comfortable with her. she could always tell when something was wrong and was always watching out for me. again, thanks everyone. i'm glad you were all here to listen when no one else would.

 

[M@M@2four]

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May I ask is your avatar a picture of you?

Was gonna ask the same thing as Solace. I'm assuming it's you and I have to tell you, you are gorgeous! Don't ever for one minute let someone else decide what/who you are. Only YOU are in charge of you and those girls are just cruel, mean, and shallow. You are a kind and sweet girl and trust me when I tell you this will pass. Please feel free to PM me anytime if you need to talk. In the meantime, I am praying for you. I am praying for mercy and grace as you handle yourself in all of this. I am praying that these girls will see what they are doing and back off. You are not alone!

 

[ChickBond 007]

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What a wise man... Where were you 20 years ago....

 

[Turtle]

Is that you in the picture? If so I would say you are beautiful and from reading your post its not just on the outside. There are beautiful people that once you get to know them because they are ugly on the inside it does come out on the outside. I dated a gorgeous guy once then once I got to know him he wasnt so gorgeous so I quite dating him. Once you get a little older you will totally understand.

 

[redhen]

All i can tell you is..people can only do to you what you allow them to do to you... easier said than done.(i know)...but you really seem to have a low self-esteem (i gather this from previous posts) and really..we can all tell you how cute you are..(becaue you really ARE a little cutie) ..but YOU have to believe it or our words mean nothing... if you allow hurtful people in your life...thats not a good thing and not a good sign. i suggest you sit down and really and think about this...think about WHO YOU are...are you a good person?(i bet you are!) do you backstab your friends? (like they seem to do to you) Do you deserve it? i'd say no..you dont! but only YOU can change things..not us honey. also..it seems to me that you are sort of competing with or comparing yourself to your sister..... Stop doing that!..you'll never be her and she'll never be you... your post last week was that you were too skinny...i sense you have some normal teen self esteem things you need to work out inside yourself... i always feel so bad when i see young girls with this problem! i wish i could make them see how they REALLY look to others...but..sadly..its all internal (its all up to them to see this themselves someday....hopefully! )...have you talked to a counselor at all about this? I suggest you do...best wishes sweetheart! and you ARE a very pretty girl!

 

[TheDuckCrew]

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yeah, its me in the picture. i took it a little while ago, although it took over an hour and many sets of batteries.

 

[Emzyyy]

 

[TheDuckCrew]

thank you everyone. so much. thank you.
i have decided i'm going to talk to my mom, not about this but about something i've noticed i really want. i want to possibly be a vet, and my parents don't want me too, but i do. animals are what pull me through things like this, and being around animals just lifts everything off of me. no matter what she says, i'm going to try to intern as a vet this summer. its what i really want.
i'll also try to hold my head up and ignore the nasty comments i get. there's times when i can hold them off, then they all come tumbling down on me and i end up like this. what doesn't kill me will only make me stronger.

time to write a paper...should've done it before! oops.