Why did she have to say that...

[luvmychicknkids]

Wow.....I am so sorry.

I haven't read all of this and I am sure this won't help, but I just want you to know that every time I see your posts I think of how shockingly pretty you are. You have an absolute classic beauty and graceful appearance......whatever these girls problem is, it is NOT your looks. Keep your head up.....it won't last forever and you will come out on top.

 

[foweler]

Its all just the mind games of adolescence. It means nothing in the long run if don't allow yourself to be sucked into them.
You have the power to let people get to you or NOT let people get to you.
Its hard at first, especially when your young and forced into the social scene of the school system, but you can take charge of your own mind and not allow the petty to influence you. At least not too badly.

Ask yourself...why do I care what they think or say?

 

[luvmychicknkids]

preppy*hippie*chick :

You are quite pretty, but better homely than empty headed & petty. Chin up, it seems like it will never end, but the day will come when you don't EVER have to see them again. At least not until a reunion when they're fat and ugly and perenially working at some menial minimum wage job in your hometown. Someday you'll cruise back through and they'll be asking if you want fries with that.

LOL....this is quite funny because it is so true!!! There was a girl in my class who thought she was everything...very hateful and stuck up. When I moved back here from Alaska I realized she had never left. She is quite fat and very homely looking, has two untrained and not very attractive children.....she sure does try to be friendly now!!!

 

[hennypenny9]

You look really pretty but honestly, it wouldn't matter if you looked like an ogre, no one should say such mean things to you. The high school I went to was nice, no mean cliches, or anything like that. So high school doesn't have to be that way. You said you have a nice friend who rides horses? It makes sense. The nicest people I know are animal people. I would cut myself off from those mean friends. (had to do this myself, but because my friend had become... well "loose" if you know what I mean.)

Anyway, everyone already covered the rest of what I was going to say. It's soooo weird to say this, but once high school is over you'll look back and be like "WHAT." I already do and I graduated in '05.

 

[PunkerTechnoRoo?ter]

My sister's boyfriend at the time came over to our house during the summer and in no uncertain terms told me and my youngest sister to leave while my other sister was out of the room. My youngest sister said " hell no", and he proceeded to call her a name that I cant repeat. I introduced my fists to his face and threw him out of the house by his hair.
The sister came back heard the story and was happy he was gone. Never saw him again.
No one comes in the place that I live and makes me feel like I dont belong. NO ONE. You need to speak to your parents or your sister or use the two hands God gave you. Its your home and its your shield from the harshness of the world.

 

[preppy*hippie*chick]

That's very true. Immerse yourself in whta you love instead of these girls' petty mind games & power trips.

Does it ever occur to you that these girls are trying to bring you down because they're actually intimidated by your looks?

 

[Omran]

I have only this to say,
REMEMBER THIS beautiful is not and never how your face or body look beautiful is what your inside has, and what your heart is.
Period. end of story.

One more thing, when I was a young punk I had a nice hare and always cleaned up and shaved face, now I am BOLD and looks like from the stone age, but don't care, because I ealized that life has way more beautiful stuff than a nice looking man or a woman.

 

[debilorrah]

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If I am looking at you in that avatar of yours, you are FAR from ugly. The first time I saw you, I thought "that girl is gorgeous" and I am not just saying that either. You are far pretty than I ever was and I think I am pretty good looking!!!!!

 

[Hangin Wit My Peeps]

Hunny if that is you in your Avatar they are probably just jealous! You are VERY pretty! If I were back in high school I would think YOU were one of the prettiest girls in our school

And I'm not just saying that. AND you have one more thing going for you...your nothing like them and you know how to treat people with respect. Don't let them get to you. Hold your head high and smile! And smile BIG! You attitude will say it all. If YOU think your pretty everyone else will too

 

[chickenbuddy]

Go outside, hug a duck. I know you must be going through a very tuff time. However, they only get under your skin as much as you allow them too. Don't give dirt what they think of you. You are who you are. Be proud of who you are. God made you who you are according to his divine and all knowing plan. Trust me, he knows a lot more than a bunch of jerkish highschoolers that give you a hard time. And also, you are not ugly at all! I always wondered if that was you in your avatar or some celebrity and now I know it's you. They don't know what they're talking about.

Oh, and this might not help much, but if someone calls you ugly, just smile at them and say, "why thank you!" that will surprise them. They may very well stop bugging you if you just don't pay attention to them.