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I am not sure exactly what you meant here, but it came across to me as pretty rude.
I doubt that most people with a lot of kids have them ~just because they can~ I am sorry, but this statement is offensive to anyone with more than one kid. I have 5 children, and I love & care for every single one of them. AND I planned every single one of them. Likening children to animals is not cool in my book, nor is mocking large families. If that is not what you meant, my apologies, but that is how it came across.
~Red
I don't think it was in reference to large families at all, and I certainly didn't read a tone of mockery to large families either. It was in reference to people who don't take care of their kids and really shouldn't have them. "for the same reason THESE people" not just people in general, but the neglectful abusive type being referred to in this thread.
I think it's great if someone wants a large family. If someone wants 20 kids, that's great by me as long as they are cared for and loved as they should be. If someone has 1 kid and doesn't take care of him/her, they shouldn't have the kid. I don't believe it was a reference to numbers at all (or a comparison of children to animals), but rather to the quality of care and life.