the problem with any public forum craigslist, kijiji, and yes I hate to say it even BYC
is the user...
if you google mjsdhs you will get all the forums i belong to, you will get my seller account on e-bay. (you will get my real name thats because I had it on my sig line)
Be safe when you create your e-mail addresses, and forum accounts. pick some thing random not your name, this is how most trouble starts. If you want to send me nasty e-mails to my hotmail account go ahead I know how to delete them. The only people that have my "real" personal account is my family and business associates.
and just FYI..(no attitude intended)
for those of you that have facebook, any address that is linked to your facebook account people can then then find your real name unless you have your privacy settings set super high.
go to the search function and type in an e-mail addy and it will bring you right to that person's facebook profile unless they have their privacy settings set super high.
moral of the story...
be a safe internet user, being a scared internet user does not make you safe, knowledge will!