I did it too
For my brothers 21st B-day, a couple years ago... he had wanted to go back to a restaurant our parents took him too for a birthday years before. It was one of those Japaneese places where you sit around the cooking top and the chef tosses everything in the air and makes jokes while he cooks in front of you
We had a lot of fun... it was My mom, brother, our mutual friend, brothers GF, my BF, and me....
It was my treat... but add on all the 21st Bday drinks and it was about $500
For my 21st we all drove up to Disneyland for the day
It was less expensive and alot more fun
My family was never big on celebrating *every* single B-day to much extent... most years we would get a single present from everyone... or on some it would just be that you got to choose dinner that night to have cooked at home
But then for special Birthdays we would get treated to something special. Like for my 10th.. my parents took me to a very famous French restaurant that was in the next city over. My first time having Lamb
and Souffle
and I got to wear my beautiful new dress that was my present I had been wanting for months. My friend who came along was actually the neice of the dessert chef.. so she got a surprise chocolate confection of a horse and carriage
Since it was my birthday and we had not been warned beforehand.. I had a hard time understanding it was not my chocolate horse and carriage
but I was soon distracted by the waiter come to scrape the crumbs off our table with the crumb scraper
Hehehe! Excuse me! My water glass is missing a sip out of it!