I am gonna throw my 2 cents in here. I am 48 and spent most of my life on a diet, working out, avoiding the fun foods, up down. up down, up up, down, up, down. Three years ago I stopped dieting at all. I decided that eating the good foods that I LIKE would be a wiser choice than weighing, counting, writing, marking, counting, weighing. I have lost 60 pounds. Not a great deal given it's been three years, but it's working for me. I hate most veggies. I love green beans, so I eat green beans. Instead of forcing myself to eat the fruits and veggies I don't like, I eat green beans, occasionally broccoli, tangerines, melons, berries. I like white bread, so I buy the Wonder whole grain white bread. You get the point. I have made it a point to find the good foods that I actually enjoy eating.