moenmitz, I never attacked you at all. I disagreed with you. I never called you names, insulted you, or even, Heaven forbid, said, "YOU ARE WRONG!" I just disagree with free-roaming dogs. That's it. I'm sorry you're taking it so personally, but some things you posted I just absolutely do not agree with, and simply said so. You don't agree with me, and have said so. And...so? No hard feelings on my part, certainly.
As far as "who decides" what is responsible behavior...well, the law, for one. I can guarantee you that if one of us lets our dog run loose, and--let's imagine that the dog is perfectly behaved, and would never hurt any person or animal, but it gets hit by a car, causing an accident in which people are injured and property is damaged, the legal system is not going to say, "Well, we would normally hold the dog-owner responsible, but in this case, the dog-owner just has a different idea of the definition of responsibility."
I don't believe (and I know you do, and that's OK--I am not attacking you) that there's really all that much grey area when you start talking about liability and responsibility. And you admit yourself that your neighbors have no say in whether or not they have a large, unconfined dog (actually wolf hybrid) in their midst. I understand how you think that's OK for you--but is that really fair for them? I kind of doubt they'd think so. I know that I HATE that there are loose dogs who live around me. And I can't even do anything about it until after it's too late.
I guess this issue pushed my buttons because I've heard many of the arguments you're using by my own neighbors who refuse to confine their dogs. One guy even said, "Heck, that's one reason I moved out here, so my dogs could run free!" No consideration AT ALL for the rest of us. Sorry if I stepped on your toes, but in no way did I intend to "attack" you, nor do I hold any sort of hard feelings against you.
(And yes--for us, a good fence is a HUGE priority. If we didn't have one, the dogs would stay inside a lot more, and we would ALWAYS supervise them when they're outdoors. I've lived without fence before. It's more trouble, when you have dogs, but it's do-able. I've never place a puppy or a foster dog to any home without a fenced yard, though. Also, nothing says that your ENTIRE property has to be fenced. Our is, because it was perimeter-fenced in 6' chainlink when we bought it.)