I just used the BrinseaFan code as well, a couple of days ago (I worked up my nerve and ordered a cabinet
) Pam, I'l get back with you on your PM today. I need to go take a closer look at that bird. The last three days were my "on work" schedule. Today I am gloriously home all day!
Yeah? Who? I live in a very "sportsie" household. A few years ago my DH was named top HS/College referee in the State, all sports. Our best friend neighbor (across the street), their 14 year old son plays club BB, he's 6'4" and quite talented.
First, let me say I am so sorry for your loss.
Not to be the dissenting opinion, but maybe it will just be another way for you to view the situation. I would go, the whole purpose to the service it to support the living and really has much less to do with the departed. Your friend/co-worker will just appreciate that you are there. If you become emotional, I'm sure you won't be the only one. I'm also sure that with your own recent loss, it would serve as an additional release for you.
It's like sometimes when I am sad and a bundle of emotion for no apparent reason, I will watch a sad movie so I can have a good cry. I always feel better afterwards.
Good luck with your decision on what to do.
Deb