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I used to be ticked off with my mom going through my stuff whenever me and brother would go to camp or whatnot.... But I got over it, and had a clean room to boot!
The only thing I can offer as a former trouble follower... Dont invade privacy too much, cause then it leads to feel the need to hide stupid stuff. Like, well, she'll find it either way, might as well make it a good search on her end.
My mom forgot to talk first, to see if there was a need to search. She didnt let me know to come talk to her. When I did, she turned it back to it being my fault, I had horrible friends, etc.
THank goodness my oldest is 6 !! Got a ways to go before the snoop test!
I came out way stronger minded, happier hearted and more demonstrative of my love for my kids, then what anyone else in my immediate family has done. So it is possible to have "bad kids" turn into way better adults. Have faith, patience, and an open mind!
You got it It is always best to talk you can't expect to be their bestest friend but you can be open with them and let them know that you are there and they can talk with you. My Boys and I talked about every thing and Yes I DO Mean Everything!!!! THeir friends were kinda shocked about the things we would talk about, but then some of them felt comfortable enough to come to us too about things they were afraid of to talk with their folks. Just do your best not to over react when some of the conversation gets a bit uncomfortable. Remember they are young and trying to learn so being open and just listening is a really big thing. It shows alot of respect, love and honor.
LC
sorry you're
I hope ya aren't taking what I had
get plenty of rest and juices
get better soon
Karan