I never heard of this kind of arrangement that a parent need to stay in the ex's home but only to pick up the kids at a certain date and certain time, nothing more. Not even for a "booty call" either.
DUH moment here......now there was a friend of mine that stayed in her ex's home because she had no place to go. Stayed there for 14 years before her mother passed away, then she moved into her mom's house. They co habit ok, he sleeps in his own bedroom while she claims the sofa in a small den off from the living room. It was mutual between two of them and they did take turns in caring for the kids when one needs the other to help out. They fought sometimes but when their two kids were older, they fought louder and harder until her mother was in very grave situation.
Sure ex parents can co habit if they need to if they do follow certain guidelines. If you can not follow the guidelines, rules and the divorce papers, then get out.
As in this case, no, the ex should not be coming in and stay for the night unless she WANTS him there.
DUH moment here......now there was a friend of mine that stayed in her ex's home because she had no place to go. Stayed there for 14 years before her mother passed away, then she moved into her mom's house. They co habit ok, he sleeps in his own bedroom while she claims the sofa in a small den off from the living room. It was mutual between two of them and they did take turns in caring for the kids when one needs the other to help out. They fought sometimes but when their two kids were older, they fought louder and harder until her mother was in very grave situation.
Sure ex parents can co habit if they need to if they do follow certain guidelines. If you can not follow the guidelines, rules and the divorce papers, then get out.
As in this case, no, the ex should not be coming in and stay for the night unless she WANTS him there.
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