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KtheChickenGal
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- May 12, 2025
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I know, right? I've tried so many times to explain to other people that, in that case, negative just means taking something away, and positive means adding something.Here's an example of a negative reinforcer. I wish there was another name for it, people hear "negative" and just shut down. They don't understand it. It's not abuse.
Jenny, my Golden, recently started licking me. I get it, she wants to be petted, and she'd had a pretty sparse life until we got her (she was a breeder until she was almost three, no socialization or interaction, just in a kennel all her life) and suddenly now she's part of a family and being loved on, room to run and so forth, and she blossoms and now she wants to SHOW affection and this is the only way she knows to do it ... but, I don't want to be licked! So what do I do? I don't want to yell at her and absolutely am not going to slap her or anything like that ... so I blow in her face, gently, while I keep petting her. PUFF! She doesn't like that very much, just like I don't like being licked, but I'm still petting her, so she knows I'm not mad at her, and as soon as she quits licking, I quit blowing. Just a quick little PUFF! Every time she licks. It doesn't take her long to make the connection. Now she comes up to be petted and her tongue may flick out but she remembers and turns her head away from me, and I pet and stroke her and tell her how wonderful she is. She wants to avoid the PUFF so she doesn't lick any more. That was my "negative reinforcer," my little correction to get her to stop licking.