I agree that what the husband did was emotional abuse and way out of line.
However, I find it a bit alarming that so many announced that physical violence was the proper response. Punching your husband, throwing mashed potatoes or a glass of tea into his face is also spousal abuse.
It's really not OK for the husband to be using emotional spousal abuse, but neither is it OK for the wife to be using physical spousal abuse.
And no, it was not out of line to advise Fattie to learn what her legal rights are. If the husband is planning on leaving, sitting around in ignorance doesn't stop him. It just makes it easier for him. Learning your legal rights does not mean that one must then divorce. There is nothing wrong with gaining knowledge about whatever laws pertain to you. Knowing does not equate to mandatory action.
However, I find it a bit alarming that so many announced that physical violence was the proper response. Punching your husband, throwing mashed potatoes or a glass of tea into his face is also spousal abuse.
It's really not OK for the husband to be using emotional spousal abuse, but neither is it OK for the wife to be using physical spousal abuse.
And no, it was not out of line to advise Fattie to learn what her legal rights are. If the husband is planning on leaving, sitting around in ignorance doesn't stop him. It just makes it easier for him. Learning your legal rights does not mean that one must then divorce. There is nothing wrong with gaining knowledge about whatever laws pertain to you. Knowing does not equate to mandatory action.