But basically my life has been one stressed after another since my ex almost killed my older 4 kids. He had a seizure while driving. Oldest two only had miner scrapes and cuts and a concussion. The two 3 yr old were hurt the worst. The youngest had his leg torn off and his older twin had tree fractured pelvic bones. My ex came away with broken leg and rib and a few lost teeth. That was one of the biggest argumenys we had was him driving with him having eplipisy. The military tried to blame me for allowing him to drive. I blamed myself for so long because of them.