Camp, you dont need her permission ! call the principal and tell him your coming to sit in on his class for a while. Thats your kid. he dont have to be there by law and they are being paid by your taxes to teach . Make them do their job.
I did it for Robert. Before I knew he was autistic. He was shutting down at school. wouldnt talk to anyone. Me being there made him more comfortable and I did it a couple times a week for a while. If it was ok with mama then it was ok with him. He started talking.
Back when I was a good mom before they started out numbering me I would just pop in and sit and watch without warning. Sometimes in the middle of the day. They can't tell you no. Plus it gives you the opportunity to talk with the teacher before anyone else gets to her.. No appointment needed.
I think if I can be there and see where the trouble is, I can address it better.
e It's funny, but it feels like I haven't seen her in forever, yet it's really only been a week since we were down there picking up the cat and dog (they were kind enough to keep them an extra few days after DS and I left so we could get things moved into the house without having them underfoot). I guess I just got used to seeing her every day while we were staying down there, so now a week feels like an eternity, lol. Not sure what we'll do, it's cold (well, 70, haha) and rainy here today -- was planning to grocery shop and run errands before I got her text saying she could come up today if we'd be around so........
