Sorry granny, they're our kids, we love them so we let them take advantage of us. I'm hoping that the 2 packs of smokes were for you. That's were I would draw the line myself. Dd & SIL came out to pickup kids. We were suppose to carve pumpkins together & my other daughter was doing outdoor family pictures for them. Well SIL got SUPER intoxicated at the wedding reception last night. So you can probably figure out the rest. I baked a big meat bird, mashed potatoes, squash & salad for dinner. Hubby & the kids watched football while I was cooking. They went out to do pictures & to get the pumpkins from great grandpa's farm. When they got back dinner was almost ready. I mashed potatoes & youngest daughter helped take stuff to the table. We ate, dd & SIL got up from the table & headed back to the living room to continue watching the game & get on their phones. Hubby came out to help with all the dishes as youngest daughter & boyfriend cleared the table. About an hour after dinner everyone packed up & left. I know I allow this to happen because I don't say something to her about helping, but they visit so rarely that I don't want to make waves. But it does get tiring being taken advantage of. Oldest grandson sleeps horrible so very little sleep for me last night. Have been running on empty to begin even before the dinner. Just glad its done with & finally on the couch relaxing. Sorry for not being chatty & finding out how everyone has been doing, but after 2 days of the kiddos I'm just too pooped. Please don't bury me with 50 pages of posts to read tomorrow lol.