For granny, when she gets back on... I was divorced and worked at Haggens.. Devin was one of my employees back then going through a seperation... When he turned 30 he invited me over for his birthday to meet one of his buddies who had been divorced as long as I had.. I never went out... anyway.. because I was at his birthday everyone assumes Devin left his wife for me when that was not the case at all.. actually dated one of his buddies a few times and that was it.. we got together after his divorce was done. Long story short.. Devin's brother's wife invites her and her siblings to all the family functions. It bothers devin... Im use to it now. Mom in law tried to say something once and got told that I had to suck it up so devin adn I and his cousin stopped going for a couple of years... Well this last year my mother in laws husband passed away. I spent everyday there and helped her out, we got super close... she says that it would bother her and we didnt go to the party this year... and that is why I am going.