grannys gone and done it

[twisted-acres-farm]

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nope I understand it it's sort of like penance for Catholic's
Lol! Went to Catholic church for many years.

LMAO so you know exactly where I am coming from

Yes, and I have guilt for smacking this old feeble cat's bottom when she squats in my bed in the middle of the night and pees on me! How does Catholic guilt resolve this?

Honestly I would put the cat down and then deal with the quilt afterwards. I mean you want to have good memories of callie and not think thank the lord she is gone which is yet even more guilt
I think there's a lesson here but I just can't seem to find it.

there is but my brain isn't working so goodly right now

 

[twisted-acres-farm]

to put it another way tippy don't you think that Callie feels bad for not being able to use the litter box like she has done all of her life and maybe feels a little remorse .

plus fear of being smacked for something she no longer has control over.

 

[Tippylou]

to put it another way tippy don't you think that Callie feels bad for not being able to use the litter box like she has done all of her life and maybe feels a little remorse .

She has been a bad litter box kitty for many years, but not in my bed! Please give me a way I can reconcile this in my heart!

 

[Tippylou]

Quote: I have already bought her cremation urn. I am ready, but I have to live with this decision and It can't be because it was convenient for me.

 

[twisted-acres-farm]

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do you think she is still enjoying life or just enduring ??

she is still loosing weight and some point that ends (one way or the other)

cat's are good at hiding pain (IMHO) it's instinct to avoid being lunch for something bigger and badder then they are including other cats.

 

[twisted-acres-farm]

Quote: I have already bought her cremation urn. I am ready, but I have to live with decision and I't can't be because it was convenient for me.

I truly do NOT believe that you having her put down now has anything to do with being "convenient" for you not at this stage of the game.

 

[twisted-acres-farm]

And by not making a decision about doing it is actually making a decision. There is such a thing as quality of life over quanity

 

[Tippylou]

Thank you so much, Twist. Let me know your thoughts tomorrow. You have been a great help to me! I want to sleep on it and really think about your viewpoint because it means a lot to me. I'm stuck and I know it. I really value your thoughts.

 

[Tippylou]

And by not making a decision about doing it is actually making a decision. There is such a thing as quality of life over quanity

You are very correct!

 

[twisted-acres-farm]

Thank you so much, Twist. Let me know your thoughts tomorrow. You have been a great help to me! I want to sleep on it and really think about your viewpoint because it means a lot to me. I'm stuck and I know it. I really value your thoughts.

no problem I hope that I managed help in my bumbling way. at least in some small part.


Good night SDWF and prayers and hugs