Yes, hang in there. All teens are different too. I had one of each. They had to do some chores (everybody had to pull the cart!). The young one not only mowed the lawn but trimmed around things! Go figure, as they say. There are so many privileges that can be yanked for serious behavior these days. I didn't like sass, discussion okay.
I found good "talk" times in a car or doing the dishes (by hand). They just opened up. We never disciplined at the dinner table. Now we miss the conversations about happenings, nature, politics, jokes, etc. I would love to go back and be with my kids, so enjoy the good moments. I try to remember that most things are just temporary. Hang in there.
Edited to say: TVs Super Nanny has a lot of good tips. I guess firmness goes a long way and less arguing with them. When our kids were little and didn't like something I cooked, DH would say, "this is not a restaurant, eat it or don't eat it, but be quiet about it." (Neither were under nourished.) We, as parents, have to stick together!
I found good "talk" times in a car or doing the dishes (by hand). They just opened up. We never disciplined at the dinner table. Now we miss the conversations about happenings, nature, politics, jokes, etc. I would love to go back and be with my kids, so enjoy the good moments. I try to remember that most things are just temporary. Hang in there.
Edited to say: TVs Super Nanny has a lot of good tips. I guess firmness goes a long way and less arguing with them. When our kids were little and didn't like something I cooked, DH would say, "this is not a restaurant, eat it or don't eat it, but be quiet about it." (Neither were under nourished.) We, as parents, have to stick together!
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