I think you should start rooster-shopping. Carl's a Carla. Her crest is very rounded with none of the pointy hackle that is usually quite prominent in Polish boys (I love them too). Nice jaunty tail but nothing resembling a sickle and no evidence of hackle feathers. Behavior sounds very pullet as well. I have a Buff Laced Polish hen myself and yours looks very similar. Carla is more beautiful than mine, though. As for size, I am wondering if maybe you ended up with a bantam Polish. I just lost my Buff Laced bantam hen & she was smaller than my standard Buff Laced Polish hen, but not by much. Or Carla could just be a little small, then fill out to the medium size bird (3 - 4 lbs) she'll grow up to be. Either way, she's beautiful!!