My destiny has changed ! They moved in, pic's on on 36

[perchie.girl]

WOW good job

 

[MamaChic21]

Thank you guys

 

[wannabchick]

Wowzer, you are amazing...

How long are the 2x 4 s on top of your larger run?

Iam so in awe of what u have done

 

[jenesis536]

Amazing!! I love the way you've designed the front of the run. I need to win the lotto so I can buy a farm.

 

[MamaChic21]

They're 16ft long and we made them 16x8 and supported with post with 4x4's. We finished half side of the run so far.

 

[MamaChic21]

End of conruction !!! Sadly to say, I will not continue anymore.

 

[TomG]

Why? It looks so good!

 

[MamaChic21]

endless arguing with hubby. Before I do it, I explain to him, he says I'm too much and says do what you want. So I plan ahead and start building it, then he says you don't need to do it that way or this way so I change the plans and do it according to what he says, then he says you keep changing your mind so much, why ? The screaming, insulting is getting to me. I am here by myself trying to provide my chickens and ducks a better life and housing with no help from anyone. Oh yeah, once hubby helped me with 16ft 2x4's. I'm the one who carred 15 2x4's 10 4x8 plywood, countless 2x4,2x3,2x2's and countless trips to homedepot. I'm the one who has black and blues almost every part of my body, cuts and bruses and sleepless nights trying to figure out my next move, I guess he's the one who had enough ! He has never built anything in his life time. He rather get 4x6 quaker coop and stuff 20 chicks and 3 ducks in it

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I told him tonight, if he knew so much, then he should built something than come and talk to me

. I have a flu but still out side trying to finish these projects, what is his problem ?

 

[wolfandfinch]

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why is he involved at all? What do you need from him? If you're doing it and he's not helping he gets no input. Don't fall into his trap of thinking his opinion counts at this point. Unless he deserves it by helping and being supportive he needs to back off.

 

[Thegrayeyedgirl]

NOOOO!! Don't let the downer people defeat you!! It's understandable that you are sick though. Take a break and recover before you make any important decisions though. You may change your mind with some R&R. Please don't give up. Don't let them take this dream away from you. If they have a problem, they are the one's with the problem, not you. You are the one with the dream. If they can't handle the dream, they deserve no part in it. We will always believe in the dream. It's more than just about a chicken coop..it's about you..your drive..your accomplishments in the face of people who live in stagnancy and doubt. You don't live in that world. You live in growth, in new life, in creation...THAT is what this is about. Keep that alive. You can do it.