We do what Wildsky does. That way I only have to keep track of what I am doing & he only has to keep track of what he is doing.
I still have the issue of his purchasing his lunch most days while I take mine most days. Granted, he has a pretty good cafeteria in his building, but still... If I pack his lunch for him, he will take it, and may even remember he brought it when it is time to eat.
Ok, after telling him on the phone before I left work that when he is stressed he become sullen and withdraws and I don't want to deal with that tonight ON TOP of the $99..... I got home and he was ver, very apologetic. He said, and I quote "I said we stop going out and I did 5 times in two weeks. I am so sorry, and I won't do it again unless we talk about it first". Ok, I forgive him. THIS TIME....
Maybe thats why my wife left me. I would laugh out loud at the first instance she said something silly about taking my credit cards. I earn that money. I will own up to the fact that she did manage our money and she did a good job of it. I really miss her. She just wanted to go back to AZ and I didnt.