I'm going to guess that this little dude is around six months old. This is the age where some cockerels come into their adult hormones, and these hormones make the world appear much different to the little dude than when he was a chick. Now, he sees the hens as all his, and you and your family as competition for the hens. His breed genetics add heft to this new attitude. I had a friend, who when she was a young farm wife, shot her RIR rooster out her kitchen window because she was fed up with his terrorism.
Yes, in the future, if you wish to increase the chances that you will have a gentleman rooster, it's best to select a more docile breed. Meanwhile, here's an article I threw together that provides some tips to try to deal with your little terrorist.
https://www.backyardchickens.com/articles/i-think-i-have-a-cockerel-now-what-do-i-do.76274/