OK so you want to build up! Just don't do it wrong. Do the same exercises, they tone everything. You probably don't have to worry about the frappe. Just don't know how anyone can eat or drink at that place. I literally get sick just smelling it and used to live around the block from one. You want to start working with some weights, but to tell you the truth you may lose just a bit, before you start building mass. If you want I can't do it till after sunday, but I can do a start up chart for you and then we'll add more as you get furthur along. My youngest brother used to make charts for his friends in high school and before he'd hang out with them they had to hit the weights. One lost a ton of weight and the others still are buff in their 40s. He got them hooked. LOL OH!!!! You need to go buy a mag. I was the residents assistant with the wrestling organizarion and training camp. We had a shop at the gym for suppliments and things. I hate those things, so do it naturally. But we had lots and lots of magazines and my boss was going to stop some of them until I told him this one was great. Men's Workout! Even one mag will give you some good ideas for working out. I was really impressed with that mag and the Women's version, but that one got canceled. Never understood why, because I have never seen another magazine that showed women the types of training to do that really worked. All we get is fluffy and cutesy stuff. Useless!
I hope you like oatmeal. That's one of the best foods you can eat every day. Get some not too heavy weights, nothing expensive and keep in mind that slow movements build and fast burns, so stick to slow and even movements. BTW the squats will build legs and tighten butts. Slow movements!