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That can kind of depend on the people
some of it might be "company manners" (not wanting to disagree in public).
A LOT of it is from hard-won experience...learned that that type of fighting accomplishes nothing. Some of it comes from having learned that there's just no point in trying to reason with some people
Trust me, we do not always all get along.
There are ideological disputes in Paganism too. But since we don't have any one single text (like the Bible) that we all agree on as being generally correct, we tend to be too diverse to fight a Whole Lot. (You always react the worst to someone who is "almost like you, but not exactly" rather than someone who is totally different)
Some of the disagreements can be attributed to 'leftover attitudes' - coming from one of those branches of Christianity (or another religion) that feels it's important for there to be "only 1 right, true answer" and needing to Have all those answers (those arguments over every verse you mentioned). Some people take a while to come to the realization that there is no need to have 'the 1 true right correct answer', or even that one exists! Some people never learn
There are hard-line doctrinal 'my way is the right way' folks in paganism. I tend to just let them go their way while I go mine. One of the biggest challenges of being Pagan (and why there are so many solitaries) is that it can feel like it's downright difficult to find other grown-up, responsible, normal people to join with. The flakes and weirdos and marginal people are by far the easiest to find - you know, the ones who think you have to have a high "bizarre factor" to be Pagan, or it "doesn't count"