This is of course just a wacky, untestable hypothesis, but I kind of suspect that there are different kinds of paranormal things too, deb1. While I think there might be actual spirits out there sometimes, I also kind of suspect that a lot of "ghost encounters" are just residual energy left behind from something intense.
Ever walk in a room or gathering and the mood is so intense (good or bad) that you can almost smell it? Makes sense to me that something involving very strong emotions or sensations could leave behind some energy.
Just a wacky thought of mine
Coyotemagic, you're definitely right about backcountry christian women, but Grandmom isn't one.
She's not that way at all! My soon to be in-laws, on the other hand, are fascinating when it comes to that kind of thing. They're all hardcore Christians, but then they'll casually drop some very occulty commnent. What can I say, they're gals from back in the swamps of south Louisiana
Most of the time I just think they're sweet loons, but sometimes they are so right on the money about something it gives me chills. They're in tune with *something*, that much is for sure.