Mercy. Never thought of that. If women find it patronizing to be called Honey, Sugar, Sweetie, etc., what must a man feel in the same scenario?
@STACEYH said she would say, "My name is Stacey," but I would never reveal my name to a stranger! Can't imagine a man would feel comfortable doing so either. I've said, "Please don't call me Honey, I prefer 'Ma'am,'" but some men, I've found, do not want to be called Sir, it's too military. So tell us, gents, how should we address you if we don't know you? "Here's your order, er ..
Dude?"