It is done. I placed an ad online for a pigeon needing a pet home Friday, and within a few hours I got a response from a woman who was looking for a pet pigeon. We chatted back and forth for a while, and she answered all the questions right. She and her two children came by to meet Rowan, and they thought he was beautiful. She says that she has several other smaller rescued birds that she has earned the trust of, and was not put off by him being wary of handling, rather that she would enjoy getting him to trust her. Rowan went home with his new family and I have been getting updates. He's got a little bed to sleep in there too, and she says he uses it. She intends to get him a companion soon. He will have a similar life to that in our home as an indoor pet. I am happy with this outcome; because of
@Ninjasquirrel taking him in and getting him to me to recover, he now has a second chance, and a happy forever home.
Olive... doesn't seem to miss him at all, and there has been no adjustment period. She was on my shoulder within ten minutes of them leaving and it is like nothing has ever been any different and her return to her former state of affection with people was instant and complete. I replaced her eggs with fakes Thursday night, and she periodically sat on them until this morning, when she lost interest. She never laid eggs for me, and I don't know if she will continue now, or if without Rowan's influence she won't get broody. I can't know what she is thinking but she seems happier, and more free, now. She is flying and moving around the whole house again and not just lingering in the cage. She took a bath in the sink, played with the keys on my computer and typed a document of pigeon scratch in Microsoft Word, and she met the little parrot for the first time and insisted on trying some of his formula.
I am happier with only her - and goodness is she so much tidier! - and her behavior suggests that she is still reasonably fulfilled with this life. With Rowan, all of her personality flickered away and it was as if she was completely overwhelmed by reproductive instinct that nothing else mattered, and then she was confused about who was supposed to be her mate. But it seems to dissolve the instant she was not around him. There is no drama, and she is again a joy to have.
On another tangent, I can't believe the thread has been quiet for two whole days! That's the longest I've seen. How are everyone else's birds???